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It is a very intimate place. And it is significant because it holds up all of you so you need to be in a comprmises position to really reveal them.
I've known many pedophiles who are foot fetishists (podophiles).
Also many non-pedophiles think they're pedophiles because they're into little girl's feet. Since they don't change that much. But they're not always pedophiles.