Are you saying this is a bad thing, or are you simply making the observation?

Just an observation. Everyone has their little kinks, and compared to the alternatives, that one's absolutely mild. It was mostly just an observation about how focused on it you seemed to be.

:) I love thinking. Even when it comes to topics that are relatively insignificant, I could think about them into absurd levels of detail. It's something I do naturally all the time, (whether for better or worse). To be honest, I don't know if my depth of focus on embarrassment is a result of that or of the level of my infatuation for it. I think it's somewhere in between.

I think this is all very fascinating. I like categorizing creative scenarios.

Thanks.

I have to admit... I really like the idea of a girl subtly asking you for help to get out of a self-inflicted embarrassing situation.
Maybe by just looking at you in a certain self-conscious way, since the problem at hand is painfully obvious anyway and dialog would be redundant.
The way she would confide in your honest intentions, while you're given the chance to show her that you'd never take advantage of her helpless state...

This feeling of trust gives me a very fuzzy feeling inside, so I like to play with the scenario a lot in my mind.

Of course, just like secret64, I wouldn't want any girl to end up in a stressful situation in the first place. I'd just like to help out in the way I described.
I can however see how this ends up being the "passive dominance" Dirty_Harry was talking about, which feels a bit discouraging since I thought my intentions were actually good...

Yep, that's exactly what I was talking about. That's an instinctive psychological reaction.

Don't worry about it. I was just talking smack/trolling to get a reaction. And maybe make you reveal more than you intended. A bald statement constructed from shocking baseless accusations often does the trick.


Don't worry about it. The "passive dominance" I spoke of, requires the condition of ill intent, which is not met in your case. Intention/motive is what truly defines a person. After all, its the reson behind any act. Sounds like you just want to be of service, the reasoning behind which is the desire to be accepted. Waiting to be of use, is quite submissive.


Heh, I see you're also fond of oxymorons. (To whom it may concern: "oxymoron" refers to a stylistic/literary device and not to a person. Instinct and psyche contradict each other just like passive/submissive and dominant. This combination of contradictions is referred to as an oxymoron.) Or were you even unconsciously influenced by me? I'd certainly like to think so. It can't be proven, nor disproven. So it's a statement I can make boldly. But then again, what can be assessed without proof, can also be dismissed without one. Hmmm~~, pointless. Seeing things from every angle is bullshit. Anyway, compassion is not an instinct, but smashing a skull is.


Back to the topic, this embarrassment fetish is essentially quite similar to the quadruple amputee fetish. After all, "This feeling of trust gives me a very fuzzy feeling inside, so I like to play with the scenario a lot in my mind" applies. Yes, it can also be an evil fetish, but we are not talking about that aspect.

Absolutely false. Everything that has to do with behavior and thought is within the realm of psychology, even instincts.

I think I honestly never considered that aspect when seeing one of those pictures...
Tags like this still make me feel pretty uneasy, but I'm glad that there always might be a positive background to them, in a way.
Learning about all kinds of different standpoints is always very valuable.

This might be a bit of a stretch, and extremely stupid on my end, but now I'm curious if there can be any good intentions behind the whole "forced"-topic.
(I'm talking solely about the fetish/fantasy here, obviously I'd never try to put the real act in a positive light or support it in any way. It really isn't my thing either.)
Sorry if that question is inappropriate or ended up being too off-topic.

I'd also like to thank you for the clarification concerning my previous post, Dirty_Harry.
What you said.. actually means a lot to me.

I have plenty, but the one I've been in a huge mood right now is hypersexualization. And while it's probably odd to count it as such, I just find it somehow...gratifying, seeing a female character being hypersexualized, somehow.


I know it doesn't make any sense (especially considering the context), nor do I know if it really counts as such, but ah, whatever...


My favorite examples at the moment of this, are these three pieces (I guess in order):

gelbooru.com/index.php?page=post&s=view&id=3079550
gelbooru.com/index.php?page=post&s=view&id=2943219
gelbooru.com/index.php?page=post&s=view&id=696581