Question about relationships: Which would you choose?Posted on: 01/02/10 04:04AM
This is probably a weird place for this, but there's too many boring threads, so let's spice it up. I want to do a relationship psychology test on you guys. This is based on circumstances going on with some of my friends. They seem to turn to me as the dating advice guy, but sometimes even I don't know what to say.
This is from a guy's perspective, but girl's input is very welcome too.
GIRL A:
You were briefly in a relationship with her a year ago. Before you even got a chance to know her very well, she felt you weren't interested in her and decided to see some random other person (to the full extent) without telling you. This random other person would eventually repeatedly cheat on her and break her heart. After a year of not speaking, suddenly she contacts you and wants to be friends again.
PRO: Very sweet, excellent cook.
CON: She's broken your trust before, and there isn't a natural connection between you.
GIRL B:
Someone you've known for awhile, but didn't really become good friends with until somewhat recently. You seem to share an intense connection and level of trust with her... but she's actually married with kids. Separated from her husband that she feels no connection with, and only seems to want a physical relationship with you more than anything.
PRO: High level of honesty and openness, personality matches yours well.
CON: Almost no possibility of long term relationship.
So, which would you choose? Or would you choose neither?